Etiquette and Booking

The application to serve
I accept applications for sessions by email only and I session with females, males, couples and TG/TV/TS gurls whose interests match My own.  Please be aware that an application to serve will not necessarily be successful.  Before you contact Me make sure you read the FAQ and BDSM and Fetish Interests pages.  Furthermore I am very picky about grammar, so word your request for a session carefully and run it through the spell-checker before you hit ''Send''.  I like my subs intelligent and literate.  One-liners, "u" substituted for "you" and general sloppy grammar and punctuation will irritate Me and result in the immediate deletion of your email from My inbox.  

The Booking Procedure
Once I have agreed a date with you a £50 deposit is payable within 24 hours to confirm it - no exceptions.  This simple requirement works wonders at separating the genuine from the time-wasters.  I will only give you My contact number when your deposit has been paid and the session has been confirmed.  If the deposit is not paid within 24 hours your session time will be re-allocated and you will be added to My rather lengthy Timewasters Blacklist.

What I need to know
Be as detailed as you can about the sort of BDSM or fetish session you envisage; your likes and dislikes, soft and hard limits, and previous experience.  If you are a novice, say so.  Requests for "domination" will meet the same fate as the one-liners.  I'm happy to accommodate most scenarios but I will always conduct sessions at My discretion and entirely to My taste. 


The Session
Sessions are in East Kent, by appointment only, and last for a minimum of one hour.  You will call me at 10am on the day of the session to be given the exact address.  When you arrive I will discuss the details with you before W/we begin and I will ask you to clarify anything in your email that I found ambiguous or unclear.  I will scrupulously respect your hard limits and endeavour to push the soft.  Do not smoke or drink alcohol before you arrive.  Be on time - not early, not late.  Latecomers will not have their session extended, so allow plenty of time to get to Me.

Aftercare
I will expect you to email Me a couple of days after your session.  I encourage feedback and the discussion of any issues that the session might have uncovered.

Re-schedule and Cancellation Policy
I hire premises in advance specially to session with you.  If you have to cancel or re-schedule a session you MUST let Me know as soon as possible so another Mistress can use the space and I am saved a wasted trip.   If you ask to re-schedule more than once you must pre-pay in full for that session.  Deposits are strictly non-refundable or transferable if you cancel or re-schedule for any reason. 

No-Shows
The "no show" is the bane of a Mistress's life; a despicable creature who does not turn up for a session and does not call to say it's not coming.  No-shows demonstrate the height of disrespect and there is simply no excuse for such pathetic behaviour.  No-show, no second chance to session with Me.

What is NOT included
It should not need stating BUT here it is again;  Domination is not prostitution.  I am not an escort who does soft domming on the side, and I do not offer sexual services, including "body worship" or hand-jobs.  If you try to solicit such services during a session you will be asked to leave with no refund of tribute.


Tribute
As with all skilled professionals there is a financial price to pay for My services.  Sessioning with Me is a luxury, and if you wish to see Me you must offer a Tribute - this is non-negotiable.  Additionally I do not barter my time, experience, intelligence and skills.  I'm not interested in house cleaning, cooking,  plumbing, brick-laying, gardening or any other type of services in return for sessions.   

Now you understand the etiquette you can request a session